Mister and Misses WANT are driven and kind of cold. They are led by deep burning wounds and/or motivations. They are simple but enduring engines. There are no gray zones for them. They love or they don't. They go according to their impulses, their desires of the moment. They have little insights, they are certainly not into deep thoughts or sentimentality. They are easy to know from A to Z. They are desirable, they strive to have "meat market" value. They do not take into consideration anyone who is not inside a certain "circle" they have created . They can turn on you in a heart beat. They do not have much empathy, their emotional world is too primitive for that. They will adapt to get to their goals. Things are important for them not people. They treat people like objects. They do not forgive unless they have a motivation too. They are mostly promiscuous, they like to conquer , not love.
Mister and Misses NEED are emotional people. They need security, nurturing, an intimate setting, a refuge. They are able of some insights. They are the needy ones. Always looking for approbation. They live in the past and have a hard time focusing on the present. They are the one who miss you after a day without you. They are the one who will wait for you. They are dreamers. You are more important, for them, then any project. They take a lot out of you. They will invest a lot in their children. They are good listeners but need to be listened too, constantly. They are not doers. They don't need things as much as they need people. Their self esteem is in direct relation with people's attention and appreciation. They will forgive to not be alone. They need to be seduced and pampered.
Mister and Misses LOVE have come to a balance. They have learned how to manage all things with maturity and detachment. They live in simplicity.They are able to have good insights. They can give with no strings attached or ulterior motives. They lean toward a real spirituality. They abandon an unhealthy need for things or people to open their heart to Christ. They understand and accept their limits and those of others. They praise God for what He brings to them everyday. They know that an ego is always thirsty and that an heart can be content.
